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Welcome to The Making of you. I’m Alexandria, founder of The Mastery Project and Your Transformation Hub. And this podcast is dedicated to the whys and ways to transform the mundane into the magical, doable into enjoyable, successful and purposeful, all while having fun becoming the architect of your own life.

Alrighty, so diving in here today, our episode is all about five ways to fall in love with with life.

Okay, now my number one here is that when I talk about falling in love, I want everyone to understand this is loving consciousness. And loving consciousness is the energy of all that is. And it isn’t that yucky love stuff or the rom/com lovingness, all right? It’s the energy, the loving consciousness that creates everything we experience in life.

So my number one here is if you want to fall in love with life, then you do need to be in the flow. Now what do I mean by that? Well, if you imagine the flow of unconditionally loving consciousness, the energy that surrounds us, that flows through us, that is part of us, that makes up everything we experience here, well, it’s a little bit like being in a lottery, all right? That energy, that flow, if you want to fall in love with it, you need to be in to win, all right? So you need to be in the flow in the first place.

And a lot of people don’t realize that when we have a fast paced life, when we are having a lot of demands placed upon our time and all of the external volume in our life, our phones, all the information technology, socials, etc, they’re kind of screaming for our attention. And as a result, our joy factor can go rock bottom and we can disconnect because we’re putting a lot of our energy outside of ourselves. And when we get low energy, what we’ll have a tendency to do is to go into our minds to try and sort of control or consolidate the amount of energy we’re using to try and shore ourselves up. But the problem with that is that we’ll end up basically in our minds talking to our limited self and not being in that lottery of life or in that universal flow.

So my number one is if you feel that you’ve been trying to fall in love, if you feel that you’re forcing your life or that you’ve been passively or almost hypnotically following something outside of yourself, then to fall in love, you need to get back into alignment with, with loving consciousness.

So you might want to ask yourself, what did I feel of late? How have I been feeling? And perhaps you haven’t had time even to Ask yourself that question. Or you may want to say, what did I really know deep down? Gut feeling, total connection to self that I could choose of late? What did I put a hundred percent of my heart into?

And if you’re feeling that you’ve been living in your head, then don’t beat yourself up. Just say, hey, you can’t live in your head and try to do life.

So it’s time to get back into your heart and start to understand that question, what do I truly want having that opportunity to clarify with yourself and of course then to start not trying, but applying. And a lot of people feel that they’re out of sorts with life and outside that flow of joy and fulfillment simply because they are trying banging their head against the wall of their mind and they’re not actually co creating with that. All that is universal flow.

Okay, so to be in love with life, you need to be in that flow. And how do I recommend you do that? Well, it’s number two. All right. Number two for me is very commonly the heart mind alignment. There’s no difference today. And you know me, I do love the that you use 100% of your resources or at the very least start mastering that state of unlimited and unending flow of energy. So what do I mean by that? Well, our heart center for me is the portal of connectedness to everything in the universe. And that includes our unlimited nature, other dimensions of ourselves, and also the ability of course, to connect here in our physical, in our humanness and to get the job done, to administrate effectively.

And we do that through our minds and through focusing that unending infinite energy that pours through our heart center that is, shall we say, like we are a channel that is allowing that energy and choosing to connect with it. We are getting the full flow of that energy and able to then co create and align our heart and minds together so we can have not only that immaterial understanding and those qualities such as enjoyment, feeling, effortless, ease, ease, flow, success, purpose, all of these states of being, but we’re also being able to focus energy to the practical level and to the logistics and the results and practical outcomes in our world.

So for me, if you want to fall in love with your life, you do need to be able to consciously choose a heart mind alignment and to say I can’t be stuck in my head trying to administrate, but equally I can’t always be in my heart, in that beautiful immaterial space when truly, if I ask myself, I’d like some material Outcomes to come my way. So I need to create them, I need to ground them, I need to take responsibility for them. And so that’s where the head comes in because it’s helpful to all of the logistics, all of the admin that we have in our physical dimension.

So my number two, being in love with life, finding that joy and finding that endless supportive capacity, the sense at the end energy isn’t running out, that we’re always swimming in it and we’re flowing in it and we’re able as a result to trust the creative process. Well that’s going to happen because we have that honed and chosen heart mind alignment.

Alrighty, so what’s number three? Well, of course if you want to be in love with life, then you’re going to need to be flexible. You’re going to need to have an open heart and open mind to the best of your ability as you navigate through your experiences. Why? Well, if you’ve got an open heart and an open mind and you’re doing your best to be open to infinite possibility and opportunity, then you’re going to be less likely to be creating little rocks along your path as in resistance to the flow. Now a lot of people don’t realize that being in love doesn’t mean in the sense of energy that everything gets done for you by the universe. Being in love with life is still a co creation, so it’s still the universe going, yes, there’s an infinite flow of energy, but it’s up to you to harness your free will, your conscious choice and to choose what you want to pour that beautiful energy into. And of course that comes into understanding what you truly want and also being able to adapt to this collaborative and co creative relationship with the universe.

Now a lot of people will say no, no, you’ve got to be there in your space and stay there and and really put your will across and really believe in what you’re creating and that if you are co creating that you might in some way be making a concession, if you will, to the universal flow. Well, I personally don’t believe that simply because I don’t think the universe looks at any of its creative aspects as being either all as being polarized. The unity is the unconditionally loving energy of all of us. We’re all part of it. We’re all unifying in our own way through our own experience of that flow and our uniqueness. So that’s why I say number three, if you want to be flexible, that doesn’t mean you’re flexible. To the point where you become a doormat to other people’s wishes or you feel that that the universe outside of yourself kind of controls your life or your choices. It is that you are in a position where you recognize your conscious choices and that sometimes there is a choice to stand by what you believe in and what you believe is a loving reality, but not to be rigid or to be in a situation where your ego is actually running the show. The part of you that would like to limit you, that would like to shut down your heart and make your open, open mindedness quite limited and quite narrow.

So my number three is look at your life. If you do want to be in love with it, enjoy with it and truly being in that co creation, then do look at it as a journey of exactly that steps of co creation. Steps where you are being flexible, you’re navigating, you’re weaving through all of the choices and making the ones that resonate with you, that matter with you and of course making your learning as a result.

Okay, number four. Well, if you really are going to say to me, look Alexandria, I do feel quite estranged, I feel isolated, I feel disconnected or misunderstood currently in my life.

What are you going to help me with? How can you say that falling in love with life is possible?

Well, all I’ll say is that one of the greatest and sometimes underestimated friends that we have literally for eternity and who pretty much has the capacity to create anything is of course our beloved planet. And that will be Mother Earth. Yes. So if you are feeling really down, if you are feeling that you aren’t being heard, that your life isn’t going well, and that you’ve fallen out of love with things in all respects, all aspects, then it is a very solid and self loving choice to say to yourself, hey, I’m just going to go out for a walk. I’m going to be with nature. I am going to talk to Mother Earth as I walk along and I am going to realize that she is listening to every single dialogue, every single intention. Because she, to all of us on this planet is the cradling support. She is the infinite feminine, the Divine feminine, the Mother. She’s always there listening. If you can choose to have that dialogue with her and Mother Earth because her energy field is innately and naturally divine, she is always going to help us come back into balance. She’s never going to endorse the polarized aspects. And a lot of those are what we’re doing or how we’ve been sort of kidnapped by our own Limited self by our ego. And kind of the ego is trying to confuse us or perpetuate an illusion that we are literally on our own and that we are not going to be connected to the universe or it’s not a natural state.

So that’s when we move into intense emotions of isolation, depression and aspects where we’re listening more to our ego than we are to our heart. And it can literally kidnap us. And we be in our heads trying every which way to come back into the loving consciousness, to fall in love with ourselves and our lives again.

But it’s very, very difficult when we’re exclusively crammed into our heads rather than being in the balance of our heart mind alignment.

So my number four is if you do feel truly out of that sensation of flow and of loving consciousness, then go and be with Mother Earth, because she is endlessly loving. She is love, she is the divine resonance of it. And she will help you dismantle any polarities, any extremes, any sense of extreme imbalance that you might be feeling and encourage you to get out of your head and get back more into a balanced heart mind alignment, her sheer influence. Even if you can’t hear her, even if you don’t feel that you’re having an imaginary conversation or a true conversation with her, then just be in the energy. And if you can take off your shoes, put your feet on the ground and feel that connectedness. And a lot of the time, what you can do if you want to fall in love again is say to Mother Earth, please can you show me how I can love myself better? Please can you help me come back to that joyous state and that sense of trusting flow and being part of it?

Alrighty, my last point today, number five.

So just remember, falling in love with life is all about falling in love with yourself. All right? As we know, our reality starts with our intentions, our thoughts and what we focus on within ourselves.

So it’s really important that if you want to fall in love with that life that you perceive is outside of yourself, the reality that you’re experiencing do take those beautiful infinite sacred moments with yourself to go. What do I truly want to achieve? What am I dedicated to? What do I feel is self loving?

What do I feel I need to let go of? What do I feel that I need to clutter clear?

And can I find the self discipline and the self love to truly energize what I want and to forget about all the other stuff that is not a service, that’s resistant to, that’s part of the past? Or has been part of a tough road in the past.

Alrighty. Well, I hope you’ve enjoyed this content today, and I hope it’s giving you a bit of insight or a bit of enthusiasm for falling in love in whatever area of your life that might be a bit stodgy at the moment. And also to remember that you are worthy of love.

And of course, that we’re surrounded by the loving planetary energy of our Mother Earth.

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